Funny, lately W has been somewhat "pleaseant", which is my way of saying she at least says "hi" or "have a good day". I have been so focused on detaching that I look at these interactions as just that "basic interactions". My expectations at this point are ZERO. I am leaving her alone, being the best parent I can be and that is IT.
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I totally messed it up. and all you do is set yourself back in your timeline.
I can relate. A few weeks ago I confronted about OM - it was bad real bad. I was not prepared and blew up so trust me I can relate.
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Hell, my W even said this one time, "Things will go great for about 2 weeks and then you say something, that makes me think you will never change".
Mine has told everyone that I am still too controlling (this after the confrontation). Guess what she may be right..had I not snooped and found the phone I would not have confronted. I am now working very hard to detach...detach...detach...
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we all of a sudden get stupid when there is something positive in our sitches.
Funny I am not sure how I am going to deal with any positives. I'm not even sure that I would recognize them. I am so focused on detaching that anything she says would be taken with a grain of salt.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
