I'm not the biodad of DDs 10 & 13. I'm calling legal aid asap, but I have no rights.

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Yes, she lied about having another guy. I believe she's lying about when and I think it began as a EA. She's been visiting NM a lot and this is where she's planning to move (though "maybe Austin, TX"). And the "maybe in August" part I'm sure is actually "definitely in Aug, if not when the girls are out of school."

I'm so screwed.

How did she get this evil?

Do I tell the girls? She claims to have informed them, but it's likely thru the lens of her twisted version of things. I want to tell them that their mother is taking them away from me AGAIN and there is no upside to this.

I also think the guy she's seeing is in NM.


~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)