Just remember that the advice can be given but until you are ready, yourself, it won't make much sense. And will go unheeded. It really amkes all the difference...stop thinking about what your spouse may or not be doing or why they are even doing it.

This is about you now.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory