WAS seeing reality?

[v1olin]

I know from past conversations that my lack of ambition was a big turn off for her. I am changing that as fast as I can and I am taking charge of my life for me. If she noticed,cool. If not then that's cool too. The last time I initiated a talk and I told her that I was willing to listen she shut me down. She shuts me down every time. When she tells me that she is "tired" or her "eyes are red" I do think she is trying to get me to talk to her, care for her, etc. I do care for her. I do love her but I don't think she can change. She is ALL about HERSELF and her JOB.


She is involved in an EA with a married man. She continues to be "love sick" over him and in the meantime she shows no signs of missing me at all. The things that you are saying here seem to be pursuing to me and contradicts DB technique. I am letting her go, letting her free from me. If she wants to talk I will be open to listen.