i have faced squad cars i have had nasty untrue things said about me i have had slanderous comments made i have had death threats posed to me
all by Cori's ex
I still say be there
it isn't for her benefit it is for your children's
it is to counter outloud and in front of her information that is not correct
you don't need to say you fought against a divorce they know that you do need to let them know that you love them and if their mom says bullshit you need to be there to counter it