Fast track to her divorcing me

[WalkingMan]

Good luck, my friend.

From my own experience, it's best to minimize contact. For a long time the occasional contact from my xw would bring back all those difficult emotions. Some time would pass and I'd be fine again. The only way I was able to move on was to forgive and realize that my life was my own and she has no right to have any sort of influence over me. She lives with the OM in her affair and it's up to him to be there for her...it was her choice.

Set contact boundries. Run like H@ll and take life by the horns.