Wow. You have been around since my original time here I don't know if we know each other. I am fairly sure I know Jack and Celestial. Anyway, I just read all 17 pages of posts in this thread. Wow. In so many ways your sitch reminds me of mine, or at least what mine could become. I so much want that not to happen but my years of DB'ing (well, what I remember of them) taught me that what I want is a far cry from what will happen, at least when it comes to the behavior of my W. I don't know if I have the strength to stick it out as long as you have. Then again, I did last through an affair for more than a year and get back to a fairly happy marriage... or so I thought.
Keep up the good work. Be strong and I will keep checking in on you. It may take a bit of time for me to get back in the swing of things but maybe I can help and be helped.
I don't know if we know each other. I am fairly sure I know Jack and Celestial. Anyway, I just read all 17 pages of posts in this thread. Wow. In so many ways your sitch reminds me of mine, or at least what mine could become. I so much want that not to happen but my years of DB'ing (well, what I remember of them) taught me that what I want is a far cry from what will happen, at least when it comes to the behavior of my W. I don't know if I have the strength to stick it out as long as you have. Then again, I did last through an affair for more than a year and get back to a fairly happy marriage... or so I thought. 