Should I Tell Her to Move On???

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My W has not yet talked about meeting to discuss the post marital agreement. It has been three weeks since she said she would let me know when would meet.

Why is she taking her time with something like this??

Everything I did, I did b/c I felt sure of the move. The things I didn't do were indications of doubt. As an example, I didn't take very long to get out of the house once I was sure being there was not what I wanted. So I moved. However, further along in the process, there were appointments that needed to be made - mediators for example - that I dragged my feet on. In fact - I NEVER made that appt! And I didn't b/c I was having second thoughts.

So it may be that she is stalling b/c she is not sure of herself and her decisions at this point in the process.

Also how have Coach's family accepted you back in the family?

I remained in good standings with her family but I wqasn't the one to leave. My family will have a harder time embracing her again.
Thanks

Sadly, Coach's family has not accepted me in 22 years - and that was an issue that came out explosively when I left then came back. I don't know what his family thought about me leaving - his mother might have raised a glass or two However to your question, since his family never did consider me one of their own to begin with, there was no change either way when we reconciled. Both of my parents consider Coach their son and they have been very happy, relieved and warm with him since our reconciliation. I don't know if Coach has felt awkward - I don't know why he would since he wasn't the one who left - but all seems as loving as ever with him and my family.

I think the key is for others - our families - not to judge. The guest never knows as much as the host. We only show the world a bit of what our M are like - so one never knows. And judging is never a good idea. That's the advice I would give your family. Life gets messy sometimes - judge not lest ye be judged

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