My first ever BF and I dated 10 months in high school, my sophomore/junior years. He was a football player, weight lifter, loved Jean Claude Van Dam and Steven Segal movies (ok so he had ONE flaw! )...long story short he was hotttttt and built. Also smart, in the honors classes, and he and I read the same series of knight/adventure books...yep I have a thing for dudes in chain mail... Funny thing is he was very shy in the romance dept. He would write amazing love notes but it took him 4 months to kiss me, and we never ever did more than kiss...what a wasted opportunity looking back! Granted he is the one who lives back home now too...that is a case of lust right there...
Then there was Dan....6'3", 170 when we started dating. He was so scrawny, wearing 29"x36" Wranglers. I used to tell him his belly was inverted. He never was particularly 'ripped' but what he had was muscle due to working on the farm...I still think he looks good in jeans and boots although now he wears a 36. Looks better when he isn't so skinny!
R is prob. 5'7 or 5'8", he is def. not tall. He isn't fat but he isn't particularly buff, but then neither am I, yet... I am more excited by his mind and his humor and his flirty texts do get my mind wandering...
OK now I am daydreaming about men instead of working...why can't one of the Spartacus guys just show up on my doorstep??? SIGH....