he's already let me know that, although he's broken hearted about it, he doesn't see us being together in the future and for that reason, doesn't feel it would be in our best interest to pursue counseling together. i can't force him into it, and i've already let him know i'm willing, but if he's not...not much i can do about that. i could ask for one session for the sake of closure, but, i don't even know if he'd be open for that or what good it would even do. he is so far gone at this point...

he hasn't asked me about the agreement again since he sent it to me last week. i am not making any moves right now, that is for sure.

Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless