It now appears that she has been planning this since at least a year. It makes the common statement here "don't believe anything they say and only 1/2 of what they do" that much more relevant.
One sad but positive side to the discovery of the depth of my W's betrayal: the last ember of hope for my M is now completely gone. No more lagging doubts about "what if" I had done this or that differently, or about what I need to be doing now. It's a shame it took this long. I guess "Awoken" was still asleep (I've always regretted my choice of screen name lol )
I'm really ready to get on with my new life. I'm worried about the kids though.
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