I'm not sure what her motives are but her behavior has been impulsive when it comes to the OM situations that is for sure.

I just think in her mind she is falling in love or something. My guess is the OM has mentioned to her that he would like to meet the kids. I actually think that is pretty normal stuff. The truth is it wouldn't be such a big issue if it was a one off deal.

But lets be serious it breaks the ice for it to be a anytime deal. That isn't cool and I need to put the brakes on this until she can truly demonstrate they are serious.

As I have said before I can't control, enforce or contain it.

You are probably right about this latest OM not working out but I'm proceeding with the idea it will.

I'll let you know how Wednesday goes. Thanks for the reply.

M48/W47
M15/T22
S3
D3
In House Separation 10/06/09
W files for D 10/16/09
OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA)
OM2 in mix early Jan.
W moved out 1/26/10
In Mediation (Settlement in prep)