I have to think about this. I really....have no desire to sit with her and talk with them with her. Truly. Can I? Yes. Do I want to? No. I'm not sure how many here have had to face 3 squad cars in front of their house while having a catch with their son...or...walking their daughter up the driveway with a squad car in front of the house because you brought you son to a playdate (according to her, I 'secreted' him away)...or had documents filed to have you 'removed from the house under police escort'....or to be thrown in jail to 'purge himself' for contempt of court.

After 4 years of this and amazing things said about me re: courage, etc....heck....I don't think I want to do it. I've read some amazing feats of courage here...some amazing comments that men and women have said at the signing of their documents. I've seen many eat a lot of horse hockey in the attempt to save their family.

Honestly....I don't think STBXW deserves the exposure of my personal feelings in front of our children anymore.

I know this may sound ULTRA anti-DB, etc, but, she has shown nothing to me to show she has ANY desire to move forward in an amicable fashion. My laundry was thrown on the floor again this week. Trust me: we have no interaction outside of texting.

I'm sorry if I disappoint anyone here.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;