I've been there Hope. Twice. Two trips my H took with OW. It is awful. My heart goes out to you and the anxiety is awful. But, Hope there is nothing you can do about it. Breathe, let it go. You are going to be ok no matter what he is doing. Pleading your case will push him farther away. Going dark is your best strategy from what I can tell. Keep posting and seeking support. Hide your cell phone, take the battery out, put it somewhere else, whatever you need to do. ((Hugs)) you are going to be ok.
