Allen,

you are right. I am just tired and want this to be over. I am tired of the pain and disappointment. I want to just write him out of my life and start over. Wishful thinking but its just how I feel right now.

Your point #1 is spot on. And, yes, after talking to MIL last night I do believe that she is an enabler.

Lesson learned...I promise....staying strong.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo