Wer're buds that's why I understand you. The last I remember you had 1 grandchild and another on the way. I also remember H wasn't too keen on it.
Sometimes fulling a fantasy only requires listening. maybe if he's away for 6 month - a year, he may snap out of it. I think he's angry with you b/c he has many regrets which he blames on you. Once he realizes he's his biggest obstacle to his happiness is him and accepts he's only human will he be able fulfil his fantasys.
Fixer
BTW - My SS is having a baby and I'll be a grandfather!
