Dedicated, wow, you must have a photographic memory. That is quite the sitch. Believe me I wish I knew exactly what to say. There will be vets to come along and respond to what you have said.
Keep your head up, if doing LRT is working then keep with it. Do 180's to what you usually do. If he is used to you doing everything around the house stop. See if he will take responsibility for your R and M.

Thats my two cents. Wish I could be more help

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I like all this empty space because i can now type out things that are important.

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