J, I know it crossed my mind too but if she didn't have the money she could've said so 'sorry, I can't pay these bills right now, can yout put them in your name?' or something.

Anyway, I'm sitting here wondering if I should offer any money if she needs it or not? I was just going to send a simple response like:

"Sure. I will go ahead and get the names switched and pay directly instead of giving you the monthly checks. Thanks."

or even shorter like "will do."

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again