Checking in on your thread. You are right, your sitch and mine do have many similarities. My wife never realy told my the ILYBNILWY either. Like your W, mine also told me we were growing in different directions.
I believe my W is enjoying some of her new freedom. In a way, I think it's a good/healthy thing. There definitely appears to be some positive signs from your W. I think it is very good that you both are in counseling. Even if it's just IC at the moment, hopefully it will be counseling together in the future.
I've been separated from my W for almost 6 months now. My W hasn't felt comfortable enough to sit down with me a lot and talk. We've had one R discussion. She opened up a little bit. I think it's good that your W is at least communicating some of her feelings with you. It helps to know what you need to work on when your W tells you.
I too, see hope for your M. You have given me some very good advice and I think if you follow your own advice that you too, will have a chance to save your M. You are headed in a good direction. I'm pulling for you.
Anything new on your end?
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch
