finally, you're standing up and being a man, thank you."
I know you mean it as a compliment but it comes across as a snide insult. Don't say anything - just listen and thank him for feeling able to open up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength