When I read your posts, it`s like I wrote them. I`m back to relearn DB too, because it does work.
It`s so very hard to trust them once they`ve strayed. My H would always tell me nothing was going on with him, and after all this time and all he`s put me through, I believed him only to be fooled all over again. I`m not saying your W isn`t telling you the truth, just my experience and I really couldn`t tell if he was cheating again or not because he can lie to my face even after I show him proof.
Yes, work on yourself, you will become stronger and start to think more clearly. I L my H, he doesn`t L me(he says). the more I work on my issues, the stronger I become, the more confident I become, the better I feel. It took me a while to come to my decision, I`m sure it the right one for me.
