In need of advice! I received a text last night from H that said: "I wish I were normal and can love you unconditionally again. But I'm still soo angry and bitter. I still feel so betrayed. I'm soo sick of struggling just to feel like I am maintaining a normal life."
I'm not sure what prompted this, so even though I was half asleep, I still tried to wake up enough to respond. I just said back (to validate his feels yet build a togetherness): "I know it's tough. I just hope we can work thru all those feelings together. I know it's not easy & will take time, but I think we're worth that fight." And that was it for the night.
What can I do with this situation to make the most of it? I don't even know what kind of mood he'll be in now - if he just hit a momentary low point last night and will be completely over it or if he just fell back into his next hole. And how much do I push to be there for him without overdoing it? Do I contact him today or try to follow up on his feelins? I just hope I handled it alright last night, but I just want to make sure we can take this and still continue in a positive direction.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
