Well, I don't listen well, I've read books recently and become a better listener, you have me nailed there. But by the same token, H hasn't exactly been forthcoming with his feelings. He's not a sharer/talker.
I guess just biting my tongue tonight and LISTENING will go a LONG way towards making him feel like he may be able to get through. Maybe give a little hope to him?
I'm going to listen to him tonight. Knowing full well that he's going to spew hatred and lies, but I think he'll be shocked I'm listening. In fact, I am willing to bet it angers him.