OK, help me get prepared here.

Do I validate during the conversation tonight? How do I do it?

Him:
I feel dead inside
It's been over for a long time
There's nothing left inside of me
You're broken ("dark side")
I don't know if I have it inside me to try/go on
You're too volatile/violent (I do NOT want to validate THIS lie)
There's nothing we can do to change things
OW had nothing to do with this, she's innocent
We'll never be able to save this M
We'll never be able to get the love back


Positive Lifetime Attitude Award: http://tinyurl.com/2dssttf

H in MLC?: http://tinyurl.com/23fabv8

Infidelity: Expose or Not? http://tinyurl.com/26ksmfj