More seriously, Passenger, I think you will regret if you allow him to set your hoop-jumping agenda at this crucial point. If the two of you are living together, and he wants to talk, I suppose you can't stop him, but I would NOT give him ANY ANSWERS WHATSOEVER during such a talk. "OK, I've heard you when you say _________ . What else?" and "I'm sorry, I'm not prepared to discuss any major decisions right now" should be your answers.
Just LISTEN; "ask nothing; expect nothing" is what I say. If he LIES to you, end the conversation. If he RAISES HIS VOICE to you, ask him to lower it, or you'll end the conversation, and then stick to that. If he's rude or disrespectful, end the conversation. If he asks you to make any decisions, tell him "I'm sorry, I'm not prepared to discuss any major decisions right now."
If it were me, I would damned sure NOT be available at 9:30, but that's just me, and I'm probably the "high test score" on the snarky scale that you might want to consider throwing out.
