(((((BobbiJo))))) Perfect! I think it's great that the two of you had that conversation now. I do think you want to be careful not to overdo "planning", a little bit of spontaneity is still a good thing!
I kind of wish there had been more time between your D, and things starting with R. Though I think that, like me, you knew your M was over a long time before it ended. R seems like a great guy, and obviously he reads you pretty well already. But the first relationship after a long one is tricky, and has a lot of things against it. So I almost with you were dating a jerk first!
HUGS!!!!!
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Oh, and you might be able to make something of Sadie Hawkins day, I would think Iowans would celebrate that one! Of course, that's a ways off too.
Jeffers! My first thought earlier was Sadie Hawkins but I thought it was a Dawgpatch/Hillbilly kind of thing.
I agree with not overplanning. After all you want some fun and curiosity there! I was just glad to get the generals down--yes I like to flirt but I am not a hookup queen so don't get your expectations up on that front!
That was the prob on match, I know a lot of those guys expected lots of physical stuff right away.
Jeff I still wouldn't call it a relationship. We had one non-date of wings and a movie when I wasn't sure if we were going as friends or as a date...then he came over for one whopping hour the other night to watch a movie!
And re. dating a jerk, don't forget the guy that made me vomit!
I don't want a serious R. But having a good friend to hang out and be sarcastic with and still get to kiss on occasion, that works for me. But I reserve the right to withhold judgement until I find out if he is a good kisser or not. That is a deal breaker!
You know with the phone issue, he may have thought you were backing off. I just replaced my phone because I was having loads of issues with it, one of which my texts wouldn't always go!
Happy flirting!
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Seeing as R is just as young as you then the fact that he's never been M'd is not that big a deal. I wouldn't call that a red flag at all. He's only 33???? People are waiting longer and longer to M so that is nothing! Enjoy yourself and hopefully you get some kissing in soon!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Did I mention I love this time of year!? Today is the season opener for Boys' Track. I get to be a timer.
Most people hate having to work school events--by contract we are required to work two...but I always work all the cross country and track events and usually a football game. Track is by far my favorite!
I get to work as a timer tonight. That is my favorite bc you sit/stand (I stand) at the finish line with a group of 6-8 people. You each get to hold an Alex Trebek/Jeopardy-style button thingie to use for timing. They have come a long way from stopwatches!
Mainly I like it bc it is usually a fun group of smart@ss men and me...love it! Witty banter rocks....
Oh yeah, I am sure the Tigers will be represented! When I was a H.S. cheerleader I won a raffle during a basketball game in Red Oak. At half time they spread quarters all over the gym floor and I had one minute to grab as many as I could and put them in a bucket. I got $15 for a 50-cent ticket!
I wonder what I looked like crawling frantically around the gym floor in a cheerleading skirt? Glad there was no YouTube back then!
My first thought earlier was Sadie Hawkins but I thought it was a Dawgpatch/Hillbilly kind of thing. 
Glad there was no YouTube back then!