Not sure what to do

[saffie]

I suggest that the "reversal" you describe is the case where the other partner simply gives up.

This wasn't the case in my sitch.

I find this hard to discuss as it's so personal - but my H is a full intercourse guy every 3rd day - apart from in the first flush of our R, that has been pretty constant. Me, well every day would be ok as long as I am treated in the right way.

..............communication, openess, and trust are key to resolution.

Yes, yes, yes.....and honesty with ones self.