You’re sorry I believe OUR marriage issues are OUR problem?
So, you can’t make time for a talk about our marriage, huh? What I need to discuss with you will take MUCH more time than is available before Scouts and on a lunch break. I guess it’s not much of a priority for you then and it looks like you’ve already made up your mind as to the direction we’re headed.
Why don’t you see if you can get our money back for the seminar then, as I’m sure that $650 would come in handy for attorney fees and such
Ok - he's lashing out, but don't you think you need to talk?
Not getting into R talks when one is taking the 'Bo-Peep' route is one thing, but at this stage you need to calm him down and get him to Retro.
OW is a symptom, and perhaps you need to acknowledge that, but also state that one can't work on a M when there are three people involved , and so A with OW has to end, and THEN you two can see what you are going to do.
Passenger - you need to stop reacting to people and perhaps open your ears and listen a bit. Your H might just say something you find useful to repairing your M.
You have exposed what was going on, now is the time to sit back and wait.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
