Oh, and to add some classic MLC triggers, there has been a rash of deaths in the family and I know it's affected my wife a lot. Lot's of that "considering her own mortality" going on. Me, I've just learned to love my family even more cuz they might not always be there. Pisses me off that she doesn't have the same reaction. I suppose that's part of my problem in expecting her to react to things how I do. Note to self; work on that.