I think they're all a "NO." You agreed to "not act married" during this separation; did she contribute to you getting this degree as your FRIEND or as your WIFE?
It seems to me she is trying to relieve her own guilt (not your job), and to try to enjoy the BENEFITS of being married, without the associated RESPONSIBILITY (monogamy).
It's your call, but I think it's all so much b.s. Why does she feel she gets to steer and control even your THERAPY??
I would suggest responding "Thank you for sharing your topics with me. I'm looking forward to our session with ______ on Wednesday. We can discuss all of this there. Thanks, Amy."
