Originally Posted By: Fergie
Rob,

No problem. You have been great. No need to apologize.
I keep rereading your "no contact" post to remind myself. I just thought this date would violate the prime directive:
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it would help her heal and move on and hurt your healing process


you're right and sometimes I get caught in my own counter-intuitive infinity loop and don't know where to stop, I still think this was a very weak/mild form (and I stress weak/mild) of pursuit on her part and I think I mentioned that much in one of my posts, so let her continue to pursue, pursuing is good for her, let her chase, you want her to do the chasing, we tend to pursue things that have value so let her pursue you.