Oh, and I would probably forward this to OW's husband, with a note of "Just to let you know, I'm not going to respond tit-for-tat with such a hateful and, frankly, immature e-mail. I did want to keep you in the loop, however, in case you are sincere in your stated desire to work on your marriage. Obviously, I hit a nerve here, and that honestly wasn't my intent -- I simply felt you had a right to know the truth. Do with it what you may; as for me, I'll be doing what I need to do in order to protect myself.
