Maybe I shouldn't reply, but this is the reply I typed up. I don't have to send, but it made me feel good to write it. Comments?
Actually, I'm an incredibly happy person. I'm secure in myself, and happy with my life. In fact, I have people ask me all the time how I can have such a positive outlook.
Doesn't matter what you believe or not. I hope you are being honest with Rob that you are going to work on your marriage together, he's a very nice guy. Please stay away from Mike and don't think he needs another friend. He has male friends he can talk to and he has his mother, who has been through this before and is standing by my side to help us heal our marriage again. And the children need stability back into their lives. For their sake especially, I hope you are being honest with me and Rob when you say you won't come back around. Please don't contact Mike by phone, email, letter or pony express. A good start would be disconnecting from his facebook and blocking his emails.
However, I have a feeling, having been there and done that - the brain chemicals in an early affair are very strong and convince the parties involved that it's "true love." I suspect you don't have any intention of making a clean break if you intend to make any break at all. You both think/thought you were in love and you're likely to be trying to play Rob and I. So, although I hope you are a good, honest, moral person, I will simply sit back and wait for round 2.
