Originally Posted By: markhaving probs
The thing is, I look at other women but all I do is compare them to my w and none of them seem to shape up.


??? - I am sure there is someone else that will crap on you, drag you through the mud for a year, and cheat on you. maybe even, one up your wife and spend all your money then dump you. open your eyes, mark.

its not an issue of comparison. you will find they are all exciting and different. they have their own intricities and personalities, techniques, and ways to show they like you. you dont have to force the issue, when they are interested in you you will find it is easy. when they are not interested in you is when they crap on you, and drag you through the mud, cheat on you and make it hard. impossible. and wonder why the hell you are still hanging around.

Sometimes it takes experiencing infatuation yourself to understand who you really are not what / who you try to be because of your current situation.