No problem. You have been great. No need to apologize. I keep rereading your "no contact" post to remind myself. I just thought this date would violate the prime directive:
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it would help her heal and move on and hurt your healing process
Emailed her back. One day seemed long enough. Thanked her for moving her stuff so soon. Told her I still have a few more boxes. I'll contact her when they are ready.
Did not address the b-day dinner at all, since it wasn't a question (a nod to Jeff).
As I said before, I'm in agreement with not going.
But I still recommend the new outfit and cologne. It's not for W anyway, remember? It's to make you feel good and try something new. Stretch your boundaries!
I heard your theme song in my exercise class -- Fergielicious!
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No problem. You have been great. No need to apologize. I keep rereading your "no contact" post to remind myself. I just thought this date would violate the prime directive:
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it would help her heal and move on and hurt your healing process
you're right and sometimes I get caught in my own counter-intuitive infinity loop and don't know where to stop, I still think this was a very weak/mild form (and I stress weak/mild) of pursuit on her part and I think I mentioned that much in one of my posts, so let her continue to pursue, pursuing is good for her, let her chase, you want her to do the chasing, we tend to pursue things that have value so let her pursue you.
I think a Robert Graham shirt might be too far of a stretch. LOL. I told Mindfull, some of the designs are a little wild. If I wore one, I'd want to kick my own ass.
I think a Robert Graham shirt might be too far of a stretch. LOL. I told Mindfull, some of the designs are a little wild. If I wore one, I'd want to kick my own ass.
I didn't know who he was so I looked him up. I like his stuff! I cannot fathom dating a guy in any of the Ed Hardy crap--I think at a certain age, skulls, knives, bleeding hearts, flames, etc are just tacky cheesy. Ok really I think that at any age... Also those random fleur-de-lis type metallic/foiled patterns on t-shirts for men are icky....
Agreed, some of the Robert Graham's are too out there (BF is an accountant so I dress a conservative dresser) but some have just the right amount of flair.
BBJ, agree on the Ed Hardy. But does that mean I have to give up my red Loree Rodkin frames that are plain from the front but have tiny silver skulls and crossbones on the sides?!? I tried to find a photo for you but I got them last year so can't find any.
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Just don't like the big tacky crap on shirts and pants...the fact that John Gosselin became the Ed Hardy poster child put the nail in that coffin...
My son has socks with the skull/crossbone pirate thing on them and I think they are cute. But he is seven... And we never get shirts with skulls bc he doesn't like them, either!
And we never get shirts with skulls bc he doesn't like them, either!