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Eric: thank you for reminding me that it is his problem and not mine. I just feel so bad for him. I will try to do the Alt thing later today if I have time.

OP: Thank you for the links to the resources. I will read them and I do believe he has been in depression for awhile.

Have a nice day...


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Originally Posted By: ericmsant2

Feel free to friend me on the alt (FB).


Not sure how to find you on there...


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Cynmad - friend "ericm sant". You will see a picture of me and my D as my profile picture.

BTW - I thought lost analogy was great. Funny but spot on.

Keep working on yourself - let go and let God you are doing good. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing.

God Bless,
Eric


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Become a fan of DB and we will find you. Let us know after you have become a fan.


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I wish I didn`t feel your pain, but I do. You sure do have an H in MLC, and he`s made a mess of things. His journey will last a long time so hang on.
I miss my friend as well. My H is no longer my friend in his mind, and I have to remember that.
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OK I am a fan of DB now.


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Do you and your husband still talk as friends at all? I think it is so hard to remember that he isn't my friend anymore because he was for so long.


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Yes, we talk, but it`s not the same, right now my biggest problem is trying to get along since I filed. I`m prepared for our D, but H has never been away from me before. I wonder how it`s going to be once we`re D.

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Cynmad

Sorry it has taken me so long to respond.

So have you given some thought on... What things you want to do for YOU.

Eric


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"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
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