That is good but it doesn't represent real change on his part. He has demonstrated that he is capable of taking legal advantage of your willingness to reconcile and you really have to watch for that now that you have raised the spectre of being more assertive legally.
Originally Posted By: Hope4Luv
But you all know what I really want is to have my H look at himself and stop blaming me and running away.
I hope that you get your wish. But IMO it's going to take time if it happens. You want to talk it through but the only thing that you should trust at this point is action on your H's part. He has used talk to gain your trust and give himself the upper hand.
(((H4L)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
