Hi SCH - I agree with you when you say that they have no idea what we went through. WH is saying that he broke-up with OW because of the pain they were causing.

I really don't think they have an idea of the extent of it and the damage that was done. What he'd said and done in the past year is etched in my memory. How do you erase it?

It's not really him sleeping with another woman...that I can get over. It's the betrayal of trust, that's the big issue for me now.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO