I think I probably know you the best here, in a short time. You have admitted hard times in all of this, but you are a breath of fresh air, joy and always willing to put thought in and help.
I can tell you, you appear to be doing almost "too good". You jumped on board here, and executed, immediately, without much question, and barreled on. Amazing.
That's why I wasn't a huge fan of you going to dinner w/her just yet.
You're bound to be either triggered or set back a bit if you spend that amount and kind of time w/her this soon. But, I DO like the idea of doing it, sometime soon, just not yet. You have a lot of new to rock! Right?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.