Trust me, time is an investment you are making. It allows you to get stronger and take the situation by the horns. You will be in control of your life and gain self respect and GAL.
When she does see you, she will see someone new and will be curious. Never talk about yourself.
I did this and although it took a while, I'm finally seeing results, although probably too late for us. It's been over two years since my toubles began, so just be patient!
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08