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[v1olin]

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Hi Vilol1n,
The major delay has been my pension information. To get the information, my attorney's office had to send a subpoena to Lilly, then it took Lilly some time to get the information and respond. My attorney's office provided me with the information and between the complication of the information and being away from my computer, there was some additional delay on my part. I responded to my attorney's office yesterday and expect more correspondence this week. I believe that my pension was the last issue to settle and then the whole agreement goes to the court for a signature, so I imagine that will take a bit of time as well.

I am not sure if you are asking in terms of the finalized decree or the mortgage and assets also being finalized. I have chosen to wait for my medical leave for my time to call regarding the mortgage. It will take some time on the phone and pulling paperwork, but it should be done before June as you had requested. I am getting conflicting information about splitting my 401K and IRA. I know a QDRO is needed but it is difficult to determine if that can be done before the final decree or if I need that first.

Please let me know if there is anything else I can answer or if you have details that may help demystify this process. I am not intentionally holding anything up and there is a lot of complicated stuff to figure out on my end.


Wife









Wife,

I want to know what the status is on our divorce. I want this over with. Is there anything I can do to help get it done? Let me know.

Viol1in