Man, so much going on today. This is from best man. Do I respond? I know now what H told him.
This is his email Hi .....yeah, easter was a bad time to talk....family stuff most of the day....
I read your e mail, although I didn't go to the sites yet...
The way I feel is this;I am sooooo fortunate/grateful to be able to count both you and H among by dearest friends...and it is clear that you two are going through a very rough time, and i do not want to /can't see any good coming from my getting in the middle of things and interfering....I don't want to lose either of you as friends...
This week is kinda crazy for me....work is nuts/GF's birthday and I am hosting a reunion party this weekend......
Ops...i'm late for work...talk later
My response I was thinking of sending (knowing he may share with H)
Don't feel uncomfortable. I wasn't going to corner you or ask you to get involved or anything of the sort, I was just going to explain that we've been here before, I'm sorry he got you guys involved, I wish he would have just tried to work it out with us, but now all these people are involved. And that's that. If you accept her into your group, there's nothing I can do about that other than say it will help push them together more. I would like to count you among one of the friends of our marriage, which means nothing more than asking you to look inside of yourself and ask what you think is right and moral to do, and then if you believe it's right to support marriage and attempts to correct it, that you just stand aside and tell H not to bring her around and not to involve you until things are settled between us.
