I may have given you the wrong impression with what I said this morning. Allow me to clarify.
If you actually believe that you and I are where we are today because of some recent “outside influence”, then you are completely naive (I don’t mean that in a negative way) as to what’s been going on in our marriage over the past several years and how I feel about it and you. If you continue to dodge me and the talk I seriously need to have with you so you can understand why we are where we are, then what choice do I have?
Our marriage issues are between YOU AND ME alone, it’s OUR MARRIAGE! OW is completely innocent in all of this and does not deserve your harassment. She’s a good person. Her and OWH have their own issues to work out, as do we, and any effort by you towards her or him, or vice versa, is effort taken away from the core problems which reside solely in our respective marriages.
A: "I'm sorry you feel that way.
Tonite's not good for me, but maybe we can get away for a cup of coffee tomorrow afternoon? I have an appt. at _____ , but I could probably meet with you around _______. Let me know if that works for you.
