Lots of posts, sorry guys, so much happening so fast. How do I respond to email above? My first thought was emotional, of course, and now I think the following.
"Until such time as you are ready to say you are breaking it off with her in order to communicate with your wife and try to work on our marriage, I don't have anything that I need to hear from you."
Allen, the last A I broke up by being diligent, checking on him, and finally, getting ready to walk out the door. However, at that point I had GAL and 180'd my butt off, so he was ready to be with me again-I was the attractive alternative. Right now if I said I was walking, he'd say good riddance and thank goodness I don't have to fight any more. This one is different as he's convinced himself that for 10 years he has had no feelings for me. Um, even told MIL that he hadn't been intimate with me for 3 years. She told him she saw me sitting on his lap, cuddling, etc. He said no. She saw with her own eyes.