Still no word from H
It is since November
He may be living in midwest I dont know

My almost 15 year old D is having many meltdowns lately
I dont know if its hormonal or just thr 15 Year mark
anythoughts?
she has typically been emotional all her life but seems to have hit a bump and seems to be struggling more
maybe part of it is dad being gone--and just being a teen?
I feel a bit stresed b/c all seemed to be ok with her
now it seems difficult agian
then I get angry at XH for abandoning her and us
not even giving her a phone # to contact him once a month
he never answrs any calls or returns them
these are his kids--that he raised since birth
leaving me to carry the load
I see him as a total loser
and sad thing is we all lost through his crises
so I need to be there for her now and I am a littler scared and angry
b/c things were going well or maybe I just thought they were
or maybe there are moments of each
thanks for hearing
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow