So what is your plan? Are you going to collect information about OM and their contacts or let it go? Did you read the post over in the Infidelity forum about exposure?
The way she is treating you in front of the children (cooking you no breakfast....excluding you in things) is openly disrespecting you and that is very bad. She must show respect for you in front of your kids. Has she been doing this for a long time or just started?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
