I'm thinking that maybe I should get the refi going to make peace,
I'm not telling you how to do your business, but I wanted to point something else out. So many men fall into the trap of "wanting to keep the peace" and do things they really don't want to do. Some women manipulate by using their emotions on men. They will be sweet, then get mad, and if that doesn't do the trick, then they get nasty. She is probably being nice right now...to get you to refi.
Try to keep your spirits up without having your head stuck in the sand. DBing in a long drawn out process and it takes much more than her missing her family one afternoon. The fact is, she may have enjoyed it. WAW's fantasize how it would be to be single.
Just don't set yourself up for disappointment.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
