I dont know exactly what worked. He actually acted more, than responded to me. I had to filter myself and practise "stop signs" for my thoughts etc etc. I also tried to relax and be more upbeat and cool... I kept telling him he acted silly because he was acting silly and funny and like a 6 yr old... Pinched my butt, pulled my hair, kissed my neck, frenched kissed me in the middle of the day out of the blue....He even complimented my cooking, he talked about plans for the summer, he held my hands while driving.
I am expecting something to happen this week, I mean something not so pleasant. The everyday routine is not an easy one for us. We'll see what happens.
What works for me FG, is, imagining what kind of a wife would be attractive to me, I am walking in his shoes (that's how you call it?). I also try to be honest and not act crazy without letting him know what bothers me. We do have some breakthroughs as far as communication is concerned. Issues are resolved or put at peace with no resentement.
