I finally get very persistent on her 51st birthday (1997, I'm 44 at that time) and she gives me the "no means no" speech as well as the threat of an attempted rape charge, starts six-months of very explicit negotiation over sexual intimacy in our marriage, she finally says no to any more sex or any future commitment to it (April 1998).
Did you wife tell you why (apart from the medical issues) she didn't want to be intimate with you anymore? I can understand not wanting to have sex (well I can't understand it, but I can get my head around it) but why no sexual relationship at all? Doesn't she think it's weird to be married and not have sex? She knows that's abnormal right?
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
