In regard to the respect thing, how do I try and regain respect even if it is possible?
My W and the children live with her parents while I am in the FMH. She pays the buildings and contents insurance and half of the mortgage, and at the moment because of my financial limitations (all my money going on expensive solicitors)I am currently not paying any child maintenance.
I am not happy with this situation but I was out of work for ten months and am near completion on a temporary three month contract.
How can I reclaim any respect when she clearly sees me as not being able to support my children which I believe is a part of our problem.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years